Teaching youth lessons they need to learn to develop into responsible young adults is just one of the roles a youth group can fulfill. Bringing youth together to talk about discuss the experiences and choices they will run into as they are growing up needs to be done responsibly and with the training that youth ministry gives. Youth must feel comfortable with themselves and each other to really open up in a group to absorb the lessons they need to develop and have the values to get them through the rest of their lives.
The issues facing youth today are far more diverse than children have ever faced before. And the youth lessons are harder to teach than ever before as a result. There are so many outside influences and temptations facing children today, trying to lure youth. There are more ways for youth to fall through the cracks than ever before. It is a difficult time for even those youth determined not to be steered away from God, to stay on a path of virtue and to grow up to be well balanced, caring adults. It is the responsibility of a youth ministry to catch these youth before they fall, and keep them safe from those outside influences that would corrupt them.
Youth want to learn the proper ways to live. They want to learn lessons from those older than them. The problem is quite often it is much easier to find the wrong people to teach them things that they are not old enough or experienced enough to know will only serve them poorly later in life. Youth ministry and the lessons taught by youth ministers can help prepare youth to make the proper choices in life.
Youth lessons come in many different forms, some more subtle than others. A youth minister may choose to take his youth group on a tour of a young offender facility. This gives them a small taste of what life becomes like later for those who steer away from God’s path. This also may show them that some young people could benefit from peer counselling and advice from someone who is getting sent down the right path from an adult who cares.
One way to influence young people without preaching constantly is to simply providing a place they feel safe to let their guards down to speak about what’s on their minds. Providing a place where they feel they won’t be judged for their feelings an opinions is essential. Youth can be surprising candid with how they are feeling about their world when provided with a safe haven and an adult they know is really listening and willing to provide mentoring.
Some youth may not need active counselling or teaching, but just a chance to have a sheltering influence to stay away from situations that would break down their resolve. Youth clubs can give this form of retreat by providing organized and supervised events, such as sports and outings to local parks.
Children learn from what they see around them. If they can see a better way of living and a better way of loving themselves and the people around them they will cling to that. The rest of the world is also teaching them and the lessons they are learning, coupled with a positive influence from you means that they are learning to love themselves and know that God is always the best answer. Youth lessons can take many forms and will be different for every child, but the point is every child can learn to live positively.